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5 Steps To Leveling Up Your Life

We all have big dreams in our hearts. I wholeheartedly know that your ideas and gems are brewing inside of you as you are reading this. Urging you, calling you to take action. To believe in yourself and give yourself a chance. To give yourself permission to try.

But you don’t.

Instead, you sit paralyzed with fear, overthinking.

Imagining numerous dreadful scenarios that support all the different reasons why you can’t follow your dreams. These are the same stories that lead you down an endless rabbit hole. A rabbit hole that is filled with reasons that show you why your ideas won’t work. 

Your dreams are uniquely yours, but dreams are dreams because they are bigger than your current reality. This means that to achieve your dreams, you must grow into your dreams. 

The five steps below will free you from overthinking paralysis and propel you towards your new reality. The reality of your dreams!

Step 1: Learning

Be the student!

Learn the skill, learn about the space, learn from the leaders in the space you dream of occupying. Learn everything that you possibly can and never stop learning.

Step 2: Experiment

Put your learning & yourself out there. Have fun experimenting in the new space, test your new skill. This is the phase where you are testing, trying it out without any pressure. 


Step 3: Perform

Here is where your energy & intention find a groove. It is by doing that we learn to perform. In this phase, you are still experimenting and testing, but now you are in the space. You are no longer thinking-You are doing baby!


Step 4: Struggle

This is the phase where most people give up. Why??

Because most people think that the first time they do something, they will be great at it. When the reality is that our first of anything is going to be our worst. This phase is where you test, tweak & polish. You keep showing up, and you keep testing. Accepting this phase is critical & will prevent you from giving up. In this phase patience, consistency and discipline are the leveling up tools you need.


Step 5: Thrive

In this phase, you thrive, your dreams start to flourish. The challenge is that when we embark on this journey of making our dreams come true, we think we are automatically going to be thriving. Not realizing that thriving is the last phase of launching our dreams into existence. 

Now go, get out of your head.

Is time to level up & take action.

Cheering for you always,

Amber Murat-Mindset Liberator